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Talking To God E-mail
Written by Pastor Dan   
 
But then we find that God wants to get us into an intimate relationship with Himself—to get us in touch with His purposes. Are we so intimately united to Jesus Christ’s idea of prayer—“Your will be done” (Matthew 6:10)—that we catch the secrets of God?
Oswald Chambers
 

Last weekend I attended the New England chapter of the CCCC’s annual meeting. It was a great time for worship, learning, and catching  up with old friends (as well as making new ones).

The speaker for the day was Rev. Dr. John Kimball who heads the church redevelopment ministry of the CCCC. I want to share with you one of his observations about chuches across the country: prayer is missing from the life of  the church.

I am sad to say I agree. For the great majority of chirstians today, the sum of the average prayer life is one part recitation of prayer on Sunday and one part grace at the dinner table.

I dont’t know about you, but when Mandi and I are not able to have time together to talk and listen to what is happening in our lives, our relationship suffers. If your relationship with your husband or wife  with whom you live and see on a daily basis can be quickly and negatively affected by lack of personal communication, how much more hurt do we bring on oursleves when we don’t take the time to talk with God whom we can’t see?

What I have been learnning is how important it is to take that time, to make that time a priority, a non-negotiable.

I have been learning that one of the most important parts of prayer is listening. I have found that when I ask God things, He often has an answer for me right then. But we don’t often stop talking long enough to let God get a word in edgewise. We often do prayer as if we were sending a letter to God, or maybe leaving a message on His answering service. We say what we want to say (which is often really just saying what we want), sign it with an “amen,” and then move on to something else.

I want to challenge you to hold off on that “amen” until you give God a chance to respond. Take the time to listen when you pray. And when you hear that answer, no matter if it is “yes,” “no,” “not yet” or “here is what I want you to do next,” then say amen and go and do what He wants you doing with joy and gladness. You’ll be glad you did.

 
 
Generosity! E-mail
Written by Pastor Rich   
I often hear people say, ―The church is always asking for money,‖ and I agree. We are always pre-senting giving opportunities to all of you. No one can give to everything, that’s for sure. But the extra giving demonstrated by the First Parish family, especially this past month, is something to cele-brate!
 
I’ve discovered over the years that what is really important—when it comes to giving— is the worth of the project, rather than how many times the church comes asking. I think you have proven this last month; if the project is worthy, a solid group will get behind it with love and joy. When a serious need is honestly presented and the details are shared, most will agree that this opportunity is really God knocking, providing an occasion for generous love.
 
Here is a very brief history of how many loving hearts here at First Parish gave ―over and above.
 
You gave to the Good Friday Walk, sharing $3,250 with poor children through Sharing, Inc. You gave over $2,500 to One Great Hour of Sharing on Easter Sunday. This gift goes through the U.C.C. to be added to gifts from thousands of others to meet the physical needs resulting from natural catas-trophes worldwide.
 
You contributed almost $1,000 to our two college students reaching out to the poor this summer: Carolyn Conlon to El Salvador, and Austin Kennedy to Ghana.
 
You gave over $800 to Jews for Jesus when Oded Cohen asked for support, during his Sunday pres-entation of Christ in the Passover.
 
You gave to our Spring Community Dinner on Palm Sunday when Jill and Darcy asked for volun-teers and contributions. Together we afforded genuine Christian hospitality to over 200 of our ―neighbors.
 
You gave financial support, tangible donations, time, and energy to our Antiques Show Committee that gave uncounted hours of their time.
 
Others of you give regularly to our clothing closet, not just clothes, but hours and hours of sorting, arranging, and ―tending store on the third Saturday of every month. Speaking of the third Saturday of every month, a group continues to provide, cook, and serve a community breakfast. Another group gathers on the third Friday to cook 80+ meals for Rosie’s Place in Boston and twelve other small groups—coordinated by Jen Black volunteer to deliver those 80+ meals to Harrison Avenue on Saturday afternoons.
 
Still others rehearsed and presented our Passion for the Christ drama on Maundy Thursday/Good Fri-day. Pam Abkarian wrote, directed the new play and played the role of Mary Magdalene. The ef-forts of the 14 members of the cast was truly ―above and beyond.‖ Then you all came and brought others and contributed above $800 to this special Easter outreach. What opportunities God has given! And how generously you responded. Truly God ministered truth and grave through us this Easter season.
 
R.A.W. 
 
 
 
Grace and Truth E-mail
Written by Pastor Dan   

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

2 Corinthians 3:18 says, ―So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image.

That is God’s plan. His goal in your life is to mold you, shape you, and transform you into His ―glorious image. That is the destination you will arrive at the end of your sanctification. 

What I have been learning is that one of the windows in Scripture we can look through for a glimpse into what that means is John 1:14 (NIV) where Jesus is described as coming with grace and truth.

God became man. The Creator became part of the creation. Jesus Christ did not come to set Himself above us, though He had the right to do so. He lived among us, in the midst of us, as one of us. As Jesus said in Matthew 20:28 (NIV), ―The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.

John and the other Apostles saw His glory. His glory was the very glory of God, the glory of the Fa-ther Himself. What was the glory that Jesus exhibited? How did He show that He was from the Fa-ther? John describes His glory as being ―full of grace and truth.

Jesus treated people with grace. Grace compelled Him to humble Himself and spend Himself serv-ing others even when He was seeking rest and solitude. He was as free with forgiveness with tax collectors, prostitutes, and the very people who nailed Him to the cross as He was with His closest disciples. He did not turn away people who were ritualistically unclean, contagiously ill, or pos-sessed by demons. His grace cut through the invisible walls of class, culture, race, and gender. His grace was not intimidated by tradition or position. If the life of Jesus could be captured in a single word grace would be an accurate summary.

As full as Jesus was of God’s grace, He was not any less full of God’s truth. He lived according to the truth. He was righteous and just in all that He did. He kept all the commandments flawlessly. He outright asked people to name one sin He had committed and no one could think of a single one! He not only lived the truth, He taught the truth. He did not hide behind the truth, nor did He hide the truth from view when people opposed Him. He did not apologize for the truth. When standing for the truth was dangerous He was a rock. When people tried to trip Him up, He used the truth to reveal the motives of His opposition. His stance on the truth was not moved by tradition or influenced by those in power. The truth defined who He was, what He said, how He said it, and what He did from the time He could speak to His last words on the cross. Jesus even said of Himself, ―I am the truth.

Becoming like Christ means being full of grace and truth. Full of grace and full of truth. Not some of one and some of the other. Not all one and none of the other. If we are growing into the image of Christ we will be changing into people who are full of grace and truth, because He was full of grace and truth. Make the effort to be pursuing that in your life. You’ll be glad you did. 

 
Teamwork E-mail
Written by Pastor Rich   

Well…we did it. I say “we” for two reasons. Obviously you and sixteen friends from the Wakefield Rotary Club contributed over $2,400 to Sharing, Inc. This gift will, as always, be divided between needy children in Mississippi and the Wakefield Interfaith Food Pantry (66%-33% respectively).

But, because of a painful condition in my left foot (plantar fasciitis), I was only able to walk three loops. Three of you—Rich Bardet, Bonnie Mercurio, and Pat Weisenbach—walked the other three.

By the way, my sore foot feels much better! Thank you again for your support. Here is a list of my partners:

 

 The Albushies Family  John & Lynn Arena
 R.W. Bardett
 The Black Family
 Sandra & Chuck Boddy
 Scott & Cindy Bossi
 Steve & Ginny Brennan
 Rhonda & Frank Brown
 Mike Butler
 Dona Cady
 Art & Carol Callan
 Kristen Casey
 Lorna Coscia
 Barbara Costas
 Stephanie & Bob Curley
 Linda & Joe D'Agostino  Lorna Connelly-Davidson
 Mary Ellen Dee
 Roy Evans
  Chris & Angela Faylor
 Barbara Flynn
 The Fosnock Family
 Barbara Hammond
 Len & Julie Hart
 Joel Higginson
 Ken & Pam Hodgson
 Katherine Hoffman & family
 The Jackson Family
 Joyce Langone
 Ann Ludlow
 Pam MacFarland
 Pam & Jim Major
 Jan Martin
 Tom & Jill Martin
 Charlotte McClure
 Bonnie & Dom Mercurio
 Kristen & Scott Mitchell
 Alison Mitchell
 Ben & Barbara Parish
 Joanne Peavey
 The Pollock Family
 Joan Potter
 Richard B. Pratt
 Bill & Cheryl Recko
 Ruth Ross
 Dorothy Ruiz
 Jean Sabatula  Ed & Irene Schmidgall
 Kathy Seville
 Jo Lynn Foster
 The Gates Family
 The Gehbards
 Bob Given
 Linda Govostes O'Neil
 Bob & Peggy Grant
 Phil Aubin  Suzanne Bowering
 Bruce Chimo
 Bob Crawford
 Jay Curley
 Bill Fiore
 Carol Gamble
 Amy Luckiewicz
 Cormac McCarthy  Dick Reidy
 Eric Sidmore
 Fred Singer
 Tom Stapleton
 James Taylor
 John Tredinnick
   

 

 
Why Do We Celebrate Lent E-mail
Written by Pastor Dan   
This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: ―Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners‖—and I am the worst of them all. But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life. All honor and glory to God forever and ever! He is the eternal King, the unseen one who never dies; he alone is God. Amen.
1 Timothy 1:15-17 (NLTSE)
 

February 6 was Ash Wednesday and marked the beginning of the Lenten Season. If you forgot that, don't feel too bad. Ash Wednesday is not one of our nationally promoted holidays.

Why do we celebrate Lent anyway? Why do we have a simple soup supper every Ash Wednesday? Have you ever won-dered about that? It is easy to understand celebrating Christ's birth at Christmas and His resurrection at Easter. Good Friday marks Jesus' death on the cross. Pentecost marks the giving of the Holy Spirit to the Apostles. These days all mark key events in the life of Christ and the Church. Ash Wednesday marks no event in the life of Christ. Lent marks no particular event in the life of Christ or of the Early Church.

What I have been learning is that the lesson of Lent is to take special time contemplating just how deep and pervasive the cancer of sin is in my life. And along with that, to sit in awe at how powerful and free and deep the grace of God is, that He would send His Son to pay my debt.

The purpose of Lent is not to spend 40 days thinking about what a wretched sinner I am--although that is true! The pur-pose of Lent is to give God glory for His holiness that does not wink or bend in its evaluation of us. It is to give God glory for His justice that would not stop short of collecting all that it required to be perfectly satisfied. It is to give God glory for His mercy that moved Christ to take that debt from us so He could pay it Himself. And to glorify His grace in freely giving us His righteousness that we might not only be forgiven but adopted as sons and daughters of the Father.

So yes, take special time throughout these next seven weeks to remember that you are a sinner, but do so that you can better focus on becoming the man or woman God wants you to be. Yes, remember the horrible price your sin and rebel-lion against God cost Him, but focus on the fact that God thought you were worth the price. You deserve hell, but focus on the fact that you are going to heaven.

Lent reminds us that we need to go down to go up. We need to be honest about the state of our heart. But this only heightens our apprehension of the wonder of grace. So take the time to get honest about yourself and need for Christ. As hard as it may be to believe, you'll be glad you did.

 

 
Don't Waste Today E-mail
Written by Pastor Dan   
This is what the LORD says:
“Let not the wise man boast of his wisdom or the strong man boast of his strength or the rich man boast of his riches, but let him who boasts boast about this:
that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,” declares the LORD.
Jeremiah 9:23-24
 
Today I will officiate at my 33rd funeral. I have been privileged to minister to 5 families through the loss of a loved one in the last 30 days. Doing all these funerals can get you thinking about death. As I was recounting the funerals I have officiated in the past year, I realized that in the last few months four of the people I did services for died well below today’s average life expectancy, which is currently right around 80 years. The oldest was 63. The youngest was 31. All of them were unexpected
 
What I have been learning through this difficult season is that the only thing worth boasting about is my Lord and God. My health is no surety that I will be here tomorrow. My riches—whether it be money, or friends, or success—can do nothing to keep death from me. There is no amount of wisdom that can extend my life beyond what has already been written in The Book of Life. Jesus is the only wisdom, strength, and wealth that I will always have, and to put my hope in anything else is foolish.
 
Speaker Jerry Meadows once said, “What are you going to do today? Yesterday is gone. There is no guarantee of to-morrow. All you have is today? What are you going to do with it?” If you knew that tonight you would be called home to heaven, would you live differently? Would you treat people the same? Would you talk to your wife or husband in the same manner? Would you spend your time the way you are spending your time now? You see, the truth is, there are no more yesterdays. Tomorrow may not come. What you have is today.

Do not waste today. Do not miss the opportunity to boast in the knowledge and understanding of the Lord. Do not put off saying to the people in your life,
 
I love you.
I forgive you.
I was wrong, please forgive me.
Have I ever told you about the love of Jesus Christ?
 
 
Tomorrow may never come for you or for the person you need to say those things to. So when you put this paper down, pray that God would give you the habit of living only for the Lord and only in today. Then get up and start living like you would want to live, loving like you would want to love, forgiving like you would want to forgive on the last day of your life. You’ll be glad you did, because one day you will be right! 
 
Snowstorm of Grace E-mail
Written by Pastor Dan   

 
As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they came to a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed them into her home. Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listen-ing to what he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big dinner she was preparing. She came to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to you that my sister just sits here while I do all the work? Tell her to come and help me.” But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are worried and upset over all these details! There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has dis-covered it, and it will not be taken away from her.” 
Luke 10:38-42 (NLTSE) 

 
As I look out the window, I can see the snow coming down at a pretty good clip. People are coming out to find their car under an inch or two of snow. The streets are wet with snow and cars are hav-ing to slow down to keep in control and keep from slipping and sliding. Some of the people walking by are very unhappy with the snow. As a guy with a bad back, I am not thrilled at the idea of getting a whole lot of snow either. But there are other people who are thrilled with the snowstorm outside. They see the beauty of it. They see the opportunity to play in it, ski on it, build snow men with it. Maybe even get out of school with it. To paraphrase Jesus words in Matthew 5:45, God causes it to snow on the just and unjust alike. Snow is a fact of life living in New England. 

What I have been learning is that the extra work and care that snow brings with it, also comes with a valuable lesson. This time of year brings a whole lot more work and responsibility with it. And I am not really talking about the business I have as a pastor.

The Christmas season brings extra family gatherings, parties with friends, gift shopping-wrapping-and-giving, travel, extra church services, more opportunities to give, more food to buy, cook, and serve, more messes to clean....you get what I mean. Like the people who get caught up in the extra work a snow storm brings, we can be like Martha when it comes to Christmas and get bogged down in the details and work and forget why we are doing it.

Is your attitude about the extra hustle and bustle like that of Martha "all this stuff just slows me down and takes away my time. This is no fun for me." Or is your attitude more like Mary? "Sure it means more work, slowing down, doing more than usual. But there is a joy that this time brings that is hard to find the rest of the year."

Don't let the busyness of the next few weeks keep you from seeing and appreciating the beauty of Christmas, the grace it guarantees, the hope it heralds, and the depth of God's love for you. Take the time to bask in the glory of the snowstorm of grace that Christmas brings to your soul. Get out in it, play in it. Enjoy it. You'll be glad you did.

 
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